Ok so did some more reading came up with a few things to try and get you back up

1:
1) Go to Documents -> My Games -> Final Fantasy XIV -> user
2) Delete all the folders inside.
3) Restart the game.

2:
FFXIV Config, then opened the General Tab. I changed the UPnP Port Mapping from Automatic to Do Not Use.

3:
FFXIV - Ports (55296-55551)


4:
http://ffxiv.zam.com/forum.html?foru...285461089&h=50


4 is a list of some of the above and some more.


Let me know if any of this stuff works..