There are plenty of fan-supported forums available on the Internet where the rules aren't quite so strict on FFXIV discussions. If you're looking for a more relaxed environment where you can acknowledge other things in life as well as talk about FFXIV, there may be a home for you out there.

These are some of the more well-known sites:

BlueGartr
FFXIVCore
FFXIVPro (FFXIAH)
GamerEscape (FFXIClopedia)
Zam (Allakhazam)