In my case which is not everyone's case I actually prefer the challenges that come with raid finder over party finder. I learn a lot better with a bunch of random people verses knowing how a friend or fc mate plays. However, with that said I haven't ran anything in over a month simply because I want to go in & learn, possibly wipe on occasion, learn the layout & mechanics of each dungeon, etc. but apparently this angers people to have to be patient while I learn. If I could walk in by myself I would but this game is not designed that way. No I'm not saying they should make dungeons solo able, I'm just not going to q until I'm ready to take the bs of the day. I don't feel there is any way for SE to make this better either it's up to the people dishing bad comments to stop doing what their doing, or leave.