Quote Originally Posted by coco1851 View Post
Well if you can't handle it, you can't handle it. I've seen plenty of people teach/tell inexperienced players how to do such & such without making excuses & clearing whatever, but hey what do I know? For me I'd rather be with people that know what they are doing (as long as they are not being elitist, pricks) or in your words being thrown in the meat grinder. No I wouldn't, but sorry to say no mmo should be referred to as hard as a 1st grader doing calculus, lol.
Due to the current matchmaking, a majority of new healers are just getting utterly dominated. Most of the game they are dead and they can't handle what is coming to them. If they can't hope to live for a few seconds then how are they going to learn? They won't and are more likely to quit than spend time on the floor. Also it's great you enjoy being paired with people better than you, I highly doubt it's the same for those people though.

Also my comparison was fine, you can imagine a unranked brand new healer being placed against silver+ dps and not being able to keep themselves alive for more than a few seconds. You are just avoiding the reality of how bad it is right now.