This reasoning is ridiculous. If I was told what words I used only, there may be a small chance I remember the name of the person it was directed towards, but if I did that I could just be banned again. The harassment will end there with the second ban for harassing someone for reporting my harassment.

By not telling me the behavior I need to stop, I don't receive any feedback as to what qualifies as harassment. The harassment may never end until I'm banned longer and longer and eventually banned permanently, all because of what might happen if I'm told what I did wrong.

I was told what I did was "definitely harassment," and should avoid anything that could be seen as harassment in the future. As I already do, the only thing I can assume is that I was banned for making a joke that was taken seriously. I don't know what that joke could have been, so I won't know what is considered going "too far."