Cant log in

[Nxii]

I was mining in Famfrit server on my main character, when i lost connection to the server, at first no biggie ill just log back in and resume mining materials for my friends crafting needs. but when i tried to log back in it wouldn't let me, it kept saying i was connected to the server. My friend is still logged in with no problems and i was even able to make another character in the server. but when i try to log in with my main character it either tells me that there are people in a que to log in or it starts loading and just says im not connected to the server. My internet is working properly and my friend isn't having any problems in game. Ive tried multiple times to log in and even waited an hour before trying again and now i just don't know what to do. Ive tried restarting my ps4 and still no change