Players Who Don't pull their weight.

[MeiUshu]

Age and Maturity literally have nothing to do with each other, however. Maturity is birthed by self experiences and awareness. Age is birthed by wrinkles and wondering where all this grey hair came from.

I am not the one that started talking of older and age! I responded in kind!

[CheshirePuss]

This is just a form shame language this person is playing a video game allot of so called adults will condem other adults as being childish and wasting your life away. I usually just ask so when did it happen ( they respond What )when you became so boring in your life that you need to try bring me in on your misery.

I feel like that'd be justifying cause in their favor if you allowed yourself to respond. Though the rules in regards to the internet as to what dictates child like or adult like behavior is murkier than the pope's pits on a summer day

[odintius]

I feel like that'd be justifying cause in their favor if you allowed yourself to respond. Though the rules in regards to the internet as to what dictates child like or adult like behavior is murkier than the pope's pits on a summer day

When someone pulls you a child or kid card it usually the case they don't have a argument to stand on a retort those lines which mean nothing in the end of it all live your life I say.

[MaeIsMean]

My point. I work 6-10 hours a day from 4-6 times a week including 2-3 hours gym after work. I'm there to have fun, it's not fun to baby sit people personaly. Especially when a person is old as me or even older and can't seem to respect people. I do agree with what you say, I don't mind. However, respect goes both ways and when people sit on their ass and act like they are kids, no, just no.

I never said those people weren't disrespectful to waste my time. I just said I don't let it bother me, because in the end, if I do, the only person it affects is me. So why would I put myself through MORE torture by being angry about silly disrespectful lazy players? Just shrug and move on, you'll be a much happier person.

[DarkmoonVael]

Math tells me 100% is maximum how can you give always 110%?

Use a balance card on yourself?

[Pells]

Use a balance card on yourself?

Giving 100% is using all of your skills to their maximum effect. Putting balance on a healer instead of one of the dps is only 80-85% at best.

[Seraphix2407]

I never said those people weren't disrespectful to waste my time. I just said I don't let it bother me, because in the end, if I do, the only person it affects is me. So why would I put myself through MORE torture by being angry about silly disrespectful lazy players? Just shrug and move on, you'll be a much happier person.

But then people call me elitist for not bothering. Meh.

[MaeIsMean]

Not bothering with what?

[Seraphix2407]

Not bothering with what?

You said this:

I never said those people weren't disrespectful to waste my time. I just said I don't let it bother me, because in the end, if I do, the only person it affects is me. So why would I put myself through MORE torture by being angry about silly disrespectful lazy players? Just shrug and move on, you'll be a much happier person.

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If you ever read my old post in this thread, I'm all up for helping people. If I leave because I clearly state someone is lazy or just a burden to the group, they will call me elitist, asshole etc? Want proof? Sure I'll start from today and post them directely in here just for you. I do agree with what you said, it only effects me, however it does effect me AGAIN if I just leave and they will have some sort of attitude. Many times I state in group things could be done better because we clearly cant kill things in a farm group etc. Or when I do roulettes, I don't expect elite level of playstyle, but I expect somewhat a decent knowledge of class. But it's fine, I have to stop argue or try to talk to people (some people in here not everyone) how I feel on this issue, because it will be on a wheel 24-7 of the same thing again and again.

Bad people will stay bad people if they need help, why should I help? It bothers me right? So I should just ignore it. You don't seem to get the problem, many does get help and just decline it. Many in here say reach a hand out, give them advice etc, it wont work when they are in denial or when people preach that it's all a game (which it is) but however, if you gonna play for yourself do that shit on your own and don't screw people over because you have a selfish mind.

[hnightshade]

Well if I could solo a primal (ex) or a dungeon hard as a squishy dps summoner I would. That's not an option. Ok. Now that's out of the way let me point something out that square did that most other mmo's haven't. They required combo skills of almost every single class to do max damage or heals. A realm primarily reserved for rogues, occasionally for tanks, those sort of class in other mmos. I've never played a mage where I had to throw down combos just to get a skill to activate to use. This is literally the first mmo in my 20 years or so of playing mmos where almost every class has at least one skill that requires a combo for it to be usable. In my main's case it's aetherflow, 3 button combo of aetherflow damage effects, then bahamut infusion skill and ruin 3 spam.