Lore Incentive Is Ruining Duty Roulette

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Rushing the dungeon isn't something bad. You will learn to heal large pulls and adapt to all types of tanks, good and bad. This benefits you more than cause you harm. Get used to all scenarios and all situations.
First time tank did a large pull when I was leveling SCH made my heart drop, but guess what? I managed to keep him alive and felt pretty damn good about it.

I totally understand what you're going through. But trust me, you will improve. And you will change your mind regrading this statement. You will realize how players like that were one of the reasons you improved.