Lore Incentive Is Ruining Duty Roulette

[Drkdays]

What's sad is that the op has at least DRK leveled to 60. How would you feel, Damian, if you were moving along making good time and the healer let you die because you weren't obeying their commands. Never mind that you're doing a good job, holding threat, avoiding aoe, and being efficient in your role. The healer said slow down because it's hard to run in a man dress.

[Laerune]

What's sad is that the op has at least DRK leveled to 60. How would you feel, Damian, if you were moving along making good time and the healer let you die because you weren't obeying their commands. Never mind that you're doing a good job, holding threat, avoiding aoe, and being efficient in your role. The healer said slow down because it's hard to run in a man dress.

This might have been a very valid argument if both OP healer class and the group were max level and OP was used to healing, but OP himself said he was training to heal with his Astrologian and the tanks that he encountered were in low level dungeons. Its the same as a max level tank entering leveling roulette, getting grouped with newcomers or players who are new to the roles/classes and kept rushing and rushing.

Again, if OP was level 60 who knew how to heal like a expert and the dungeon was something from the Expert Roulette or level 60 Roulette, then I do think OP should increase his game and try and make sure to keep up with the group, but since OP was new to healing and doing low level dungeons, I reckon any tank should atleast discuss the pace with the group and OP and not rush like a mad men.

[Ayada]

Random groups are toxic by nature. When the chances of dealing with someone again are pretty slim people are unsurprisingly rude to each other.

When encountering these situations I've found it best to either leave, or try and finish as quickly as possible. Engaging in dramatics only makes them problem worse, and generally will only make you even more mad.

That being said, I have always found "Letting other people die because I am god and you should dance for me" is on the top list of toxic behaviors.