I find that a lot of people are judgmental. As time progresses, you are right, people set expectation but I'm one of those few people who do not care what other people expect or require. Like the guy who said if you have not accomplished this or that, then your opinion does not matter. I picked up this game, started off as a DPS and learned how each dungeon works. I didn't know what to expect. I did that on my own accord. One MMO I played did not have dungeons and another, you just killed monsters. There was no "collect this key" or "grab that orb."

I agree with what you said earlier, that people can be brutal to people who do not know what they're doing. I'm very attentive to detail and I can usually tell when a player in a dungeon is a little off because they've never done the dungeon or when they're just "limited" because they do not use CDs, etc.