This is a fight between people who think they should be able to exhibit antisocial behavior and not get any kind of backlash from it and people who are more understanding and empathetic.

Selfish people will always defend themselves. Whereas empathetic people will acknowlege the points of the selfish person then try to explain why they should be more understanding.

Are we apes that play dominance games and throw fecies or are we civilized mature human beings?