The sad thing is, the people who pull early without checking to see if others are ready or on the way, will just end up earning very bad reputations for themselves. I have already seen this... You'd be surprised how little "courtesy, patience, or respect" others will have for you when you act like a selfish jerk all the time.
So, the next time your looking for assistance don't be surprised when your fellows decline to aid you (or dont even know you exist because half the server's blacklisted you -- yes Ive seen this too...) because they remember your the disrespectful person who couldn't wait a few minutes for the benefit of others.

So really, just let them do what they want. They'll get run out sooner or later.