Question..

[Joe_Schmoe]

Have you guys met people in game and became good friends with them?? How did it happen? Because noone ever talks to me lol, and if we do it's like -spam jump, then runs away-. Or i'd post multiple party finders asking to join Linkshells but noone ever invited me. it's so lonely :/

Not really, but I tend to be a loner anyway, so it's less of an issue. There's also the issue you mentioned, much selfishness and/or loners like me. Lots of tanks/healers in FATEs that don't want to tank or heal, or, despite announcing that you have a FATE party going, noone shows up. Long story short, you're not the only one. I guess my advice would be, just help other people out, heal/tank for them if they're having problems, res them if they're dead etc. It was pretty much how I got invited to my FC, so it works. ;]