It's a mindset that some people have, and honestly, I'm fine with them having that mindset so long as they actually LEARN from their mistakes. Too often have I seen those 'learn by doing' folks wipe from the SAME mechanic 10 times. That's when I get urked. It's one thing to want to learn yourself, it's another to force everyone else attempting to make it through to be at a standstill because you're too stubborn to get some help.

On top of this, I dislike when people force other's to not get an explanation. If that's your method, good for you. But that doesn't mean everyone likes trial by fire. If you don't wanna read, then don't. Hide your party chat while the explanations are going through. Or heck, just change which log you're looking at. It's not that hard to avoid seeing the chat. And if they are impatient, then that's on them. I'll gladly kick someone as soon as the chance arises if they are impatient and unperceptive to helping the group as a whole.