I understand that my stat weights as a DRK is-
VIT > STR > CRIT > DET > SS

and that these weights as pretty standard with the other tanks.

I'm personally a ilvl 228 DRK Tank (ilvl 226 PLD/WAR). all 3 tanks at 60.
230 anima weapon on Drk; 210 Eso weapons on PLD/WAR
Full 230 lore left side
230 full lore acc.-
HQ 220 crafted fending rings.
230 SLAYING earring (i valued the crit and acc. over the parry and 4AP)

if you guys dont want to care about specific numbers i'll give rough estimates of relevant stats;

DRK: ~1k AP, 850 crit, 500 DET, 400 SS
PLD: ~950-1k AP, 750 Crit, 500 DET, 450 SS
WAR: ~950-1k AP, 850 crit, 400 DET, 400 SS

All that out of the way- I'm not a raider, and I have personal reasoning as to why I have no interest in starting unless things are dealt with. the reason I state this is because I'm wondering about the state of SS

Does it matter to me as a DRK? does it matter as the other tanks?
If so, how should I meld it? whats my target number? (I.E 600 something for DRG)

I havent overmelded my 220 rings yet- is it even worth melding SS because it's shared gear with the other tanks? should I just slap even more DET all over them?
What SS do i want on PLD and WAR?

Left side is already melded grade 4 Crit/DET- should i swap any of those out for SS? does SS matter for anything outside of A8S?
Should I even care about my SS as a filthy casual?