so The Vault, tank geared just about sufficiently for that run, the rest all 230ilvl..the tank can get kicked because well is visible that the tank is not up to paar compared to the others ? ..ohh it shouldnt ? well let me tell you it happens... is that right ? no but ...it falls Under...different playstyle and NOT harrassement

According to you though it would be harrassement on the part of the tank ...
Uhh, no... one, i230 doesn't even take effect in the Vault, and two, I'm talking massive undergearing to the point your party cannot even progress. Like, you have to literally try to be that bad.

If you, as a tank, come into the Vault dressed in your item level 50 AF gear (or worse)... yeah, I'm calling that griefing and harassment because you queued up solely to waste the time of 3 other people in the DF. There is *no* excuse for that sort of thing and you shouldn't be defending it either.