botting.

[Aenarion]

A lot of people say this, but it is not an excuse, it's just rude. I also play in windowed when crafting to watch netflix or read things on forums, and with proper chat filters and window sizes i can still see when someone is trying to talk to me.

depends on your setup I guess, I have FFXIV up on one monitor while I watch stuff/browse forums on another monitor. I do usually see it when people tried to talk to me, though if I'm paying attention on something else, I may not notice it for awhile