A personal parser doesn't help either issue though. You won't know your DPS is good/bad if you have 0 idea what other people are doing. You go into expert and do 1500 DPS, grrrreeeaaat! I rock! Activate group parser and see the tank did 1200 and the other DPS did 2400.
Astrologians won't be able to plan their party buffs on the higher DPS if they cannot see the groups DPS.
That depends what you mean. I have seen lots of players that on the surface look like they are fine, but the mobs are dying incredibly slow and we see 2-3 extra mechanics that you normally skip. If you mean they are constantly dying, I can see that. I can't see if some job I don't even have at 60 is doing their rotation wrong.I understand your point that many who are not pulling their weight at all might be oblivious to that. But you and I both know that we do not need a parser to see when another player is playing severely below normal ability. The question is whether having numbers to back up that judgement helps the situation. I don't think it does because your judgement is the same, you would just have numbers for 'proof' if required. But depending on your approach and the sensitivity of the other player your message can be welcomed or ignored, or even treated as provocation. Having the numbers wouldn't change that.
I went to Bismark EX the other day with a couple of friends in raid finder. For fun, I LB'd the adds before the last jump on the back, figuring we are 100 ilvls above the content - we can 1 shot the back. We did not 1 shot the back and the melee DPS fell to his death and then raged at me for using the LB. I told them I figured we'd have the DPS to 1 shot. He started crying about how he didn't realize it was a newb party, and that I obviously am an idiot for using the LB which was obviously required. I told him maybe if his DPS was higher, then we wouldn't have needed it. He said, "I know my DPS, my DPS is fine". My friend posted up the log, it was IIRC around ~1800 DPS for me, 1000, 800 and 300 for the other 3 DPS. The 300 was the guy raging (not exaggerated numbers, but it's been a few weeks, I may be off by a small margin). This guy obviously thought he knew what he was doing, but obviously didn't. A group parser would have shown him prior to creating confrontation for no reason.
I should add, I had 0 idea that the guys DPS was going to be that low based off the fight itself.
I think a personal parser has some advantages and some disadvantages. I also think that a personal parser would create more aggression than a group parser. Having everything in the open means that people can see what is up without having confrontation. If a DPS check is failed with personal logs, everyone has to report their numbers and people may lie or whatever. It just opens up another can of worms. As said earlier, a personal parser would also be unhelpful for buffs, and for determining how your DPS compares in 'ordinary' content.I think we agree on many of the individual issues, but perhaps on this one specific point we still disagree? Either way, let me ask you, if there was a personal parser built into the game as a training aid, but the numbers were private unless you share them in chat or something, would that not help in the way that most people argue a parser will help?