The line is drawn dependent on the circumstances.
For example, back 1.5 years ago, when we had 160-170 ilvl gear and entered Bismark EX, it wasn't uncommon for people to pull 2.x numbers. I'd be in groups where I had ~900 DPS, 2nd DPS was ~700, 3rd was ~500, 4th was ~300 - tanks were both around ~500. We'd miss the DPS checks, where no mechanics were necessary, we just couldn't kill things in time (i.e. the snakes). Wipes were not a result of people learning the fight, it was a result of them not learning how to DPS. Sitting there for 10 more wipes changed nothing and we all abandoned. Then the next group of people would kick the MCH who was pulling 700, and the guy with 300 DPS was raging at everyone saying "man I wish I could get a group that could do this! I KNOW WHAT I AM DOING, why is it so hard to find a group that does??"
Indeed, I would not kick someone from light party content, i.e. expert roulette. I do find a group parser would be useful in those situations for a number of reasons. Lower DPS players could see that they are consistently below average (even below the tanks) and might think to work on it. Further, Astrologians could see that even though we have a monk in the party, (s)he is pulling 50% of the DPS as the SMN and maybe they should pop balance on the SMN and not the MNK.If we are talking about things in the MSQ, or light party content, or normal/hard mode (not raid or alliance) content, then I think that such judgements have no purpose. Because in general, parties are capable of clearing such content with ease, even with sub par performance. Titan HM being an obvious exception to that (at the time), and if you remember it was quite contentious at the time too...
Interesting perspective. I see all content as optional. I only do expert roulettes 5x per week until I have my 4 or so items that require it and stop and then continue raiding. I have gone patches where I've done the expert dungeons a total of 6 times (I've been to Hullbreaker Hard 2 or maybe 3 times?). I've been to A9S at least 5x as much as I've ever been to Weeping City, etc. That said, for what you define as ordinary content, my comment above applies.For EX content, raids and alliance content I view things a bit differently because that is optional content, and by undertaking it you are accepting that it's a greater challenge and therefore better than average performance is expected. If you are framing your situation about kicking a player for poor performance in EX/raid/alliance content, I can see your point. If it's in 'ordinary' content, I do not.
That's an alright perspective. I think kicking in general is a dick move. Even if someone is rude, kicking someone takes away someone elses enjoyment to increase your own. In that sense, you're no different than the person harassing, who is ruining your experience for the benefit of themselves. I find kicking for poor performance (intentional or not) to be one of the few acceptable excuses to kick someone, as they are preventing actual completion of the duty, but only if it is actually preventing completion (i.e. not going to kick someone with low dps in expert, just because it will take 17 minutes instead of 12).However, I still feel that kicking for performance is a problem. On the other hand if you PF'd and made clear the expectations of the group, I don't see an issue because you clearly set the expectation. But, if you DF'd it, short of someone intentionally sabotaging your run, I think you need to be careful about insta-kicking because you think they are not performing well enough.
I strongly disagree with this statement. Plenty of people have no idea that they are doing as poorly as they are. I can't count how many times I've finished expert and had the other DPS exclaim, "that was the fastest run ever!" despite it being one of my slower runs. These players could see that their DPS is below average, below the tanks, below the healers, and they could do something about it. Will everyone? no. Will some? yes. It's also very useful for teamwork and buffs - most notably AST and Balance. I know that if I mained AST, I'd want my buffs to be used to the optimum, and that means placing balance on the top DPS and not just a random DPS.To bring this back to the original topic, and relate it to this discussion, using parsers in content outside of the EX/raid/alliance tier of content is pretty well pointless and open to abuse. I say this because the fundamental truth of the topic is this; With or without a parser, with or without a coach, with or without being berated over performance, players who want to improve will seek ways to improve and players who do not, will not. Parsers won't change that. I think we all know that this is true.
I somewhat agree. I strongly want a parser and think it would benefit the game immensely. Is it required for me personally, not really. Do I have a desire to kick people, not really. I just think a parser is better for the community.The discussion about kicking people is really a distraction in this topic. Perhaps people are trying to find a justification for having public parsers so they can valiate their reasons for kicking people? Perhaps it's just about a distorted example to justify the presence of a parser? I don't know and I don't really care because those who want to improve will, and those who do not will not. Parsers and/or kicking people in DF over performance, will never change that.