Quote Originally Posted by Lambdafish View Post
reason that this happens is because the non-dpsing healer is not paying attention to anything at all and is watching netflix etc. If a healer is DPSing, they tend to do that in the downtime when they don't need to heal, never letting a GCD go to waste, those are GOOD healers.
This is true, and happend to me once. I was in a VA run as WHM, the other healer was also WHM. Since I noticed she only healed, I asked her if it was alright if I would DPS more, and also asking our Bard to sing Foe Requim (not only for me tho, since the other groups had BLM and SMN) but he refused to sing, since my DPS was not important. The other members of the group also we're saying I shouldn't DPS as healer, and if I DPS'd they would kick me. So I only healed, but was bored because this, and our group died. I just can't concentrate if I just need to heal, since you don't need to cast all the time.