Would you like an in-game parser?

[Rawrz]

It may not be as accurate as a parser but it will still provide you with a clue if there is something fishy going on. Good enough for me.

In most trash pulls, I'm 2nd most aggro on every mob as the SCH. Without healing even once, outside of embrace. In many cases even on the boss I'm 2nd or frequently 3rd, again without using any healing skills. There is some truth in the enmity bar, but I doubt, egoism aside, that I'm out dpsing a melee player especially on a single target. It is just a terrible gauge.