Would you like an in-game parser?

[Khemorex]

btw its just a game :P

[Seraphix2407]

btw its just a game :P

Ahh yeah, hes vise. I love alot of his quotes. Yes it is a game, but seriously, don't waste my time if you want help and don't care to improve in both dps and mechanics. If you wanna wipe for 10 hours on same thing after 1 min into a pull, that's your choice. My choice is to have fun, having fun is being avaible to beat my previous records, improving in both dps and mechanics, same time beating content. For ME this is fun, there is no fun when some people aren't willing to listen and drags a whole party down . Yes it is a game and it's meant to be fun and this is my way of fun.

Are people afraid of being called out by annoying toxic jerks? This sounds like the only reason people wouldn't want to have their DPS made public.
But after being called out by one of those jerks, you could take the feedback positively regardless of the words that were said. Having yourself being brought into the spotlight for a moment to give you the realization that you are under-performing should be replied with "I need to find a way to get better!" not "I should ignore that jerk because he was being mean about it."

Yeah some people have no tact and cannot be polite regarding things. It happens. When you get down to the end result, you may not yet realize how much you have been under-performing. I have no idea about myself I don't parse. But I've been called out before and I've used it to improve. I won't dismiss advice helping me just because I was told I shouldn't be living or something to that effect

Yeah same here. When people saw how bad I did, I simply ignore what they said and became better. If you are in a spotlight and people tell you how bad you are, both nice or assholes, you should still think about improving. It's like what you said, many ignore the fact and keep telling themselves ''this guy is just mean''. I have my own raid group and when I screw up I get told and I like it, because it means I need to improve. Many people take this the bad way, even if told nicely.