Would you like an in-game parser?

[Canadane]

And to those saying "no no.... that totes won't be abused in FFXIV. It's all for the good of the players!" - you're either very new to MMOs, or you're a liar. Straight up.

I don't think anyone is saying that.
What we are saying is, if someone is going to "abuse you" over it, actually take the feedback, don't just put up a wall and not improve yourself because someone was a mean jerkface to you one afternoon.