Okay, since you play on same server as I do, do people really go around talk about those who RP and do dungeons and talk about their dps? Highly doubt it. I really do doubt that. But I will say it again, many don't really care about those people and their numbers. You will have bad attitude people no matter what and where you go and whatever game you play, simple. I wont lie, I've seen people say things like ''go quit the game etc'', but let's be honest, where does this hurtful words usually happen at? Extreme primals and raids I can run 1000 dungeons and maybe see 1 guy talk about someone's dps being low, and not gonna lie I've run many roulettes and rarely see it happens and if it does, it's a very small chance of it happening. The real issue are those who play in primal fights and raids who get's that attitude. I know it's too far being rude about it, but when you are doing primals or raids, you are to expected to play well.
Example, I helped my friends doing seph extreme the other day. My friend isn't excactly the best healer, so put him up with a healer who can solo heal would be ideal if he screws up, his friend didn't do high dps, in fact less than my war but we beat it regardles. Now, if he was in a party finder which he have tried for ages but never beat it, it could occur the fact he and his friend was the players who nerfed the group, no? You see when you going to farm content, people expects people to play well, and not get a free ride. If you aren't doing enough, I would kindly ask them to leave on their own and if they have a bad attitude, I ignore it and won't talk to them again, simple. If this was my own static or friend I would help them much as I can. Problem with random people, many take it the wrong way, but I wont say many haven't accepted my help in terms of rotations etc, because many have indeed. I think many here, including yourself, forget the fact we talk about high end content like primals and raids and people have to step up. Barely anyone mention that you have to be top tier dps in roulettes or 24 man raids.
As for the community using parser, rarely see people call it out, and it's very rare. The big picture is there are few of pro-parsers compare to the people who won't get gud. Simple. If you care to join, do things with me and you will see how ''often'' as you or other people say it happens. Most people make it sound like it happens every time they enter a duty. There are more icemages than those who call out and badmouth people
Haha, true on SSS, that's pretty much the same. So yes, I agree with you there. Mistakes can be mechanics and rotations. Problem is, ''mistakes'' in therm of dps, isn't a mistake when you drop down 500 dps, dropping down 50-100 is however. But about the SSS part and hummelfaust, you are correct, it's pretty much the same there, but want to know the sad part? I've tried to help groups on my own server for it and woah, full 230 gear and can't beat it? I never said anyting about a person's dps was low, I was saying it was just low for the whole group, but to be honest there was a smn doing 1.2k there when he should done atleast 500-600 more with his gear. But did I tell him? Nope, because that's where the problem comes, they gonna get offended if I was gonna offer them a rotation to follow, and that my friend
is what many can't figure out how to fix. Kick them? Nope because then you are an asshole (which many in this thread say it is), or you simply have to accept their dps but can't beat it because hes not doing enough. Sometimes I just disband a whole party and re-invite people that did enough in dps and mechanics and find a replacement for the one who couldn't, this is to avoid to make them feel bad for being behind on the dps check. I know it's a bit harsh but rather do that then tell them they are low on dps and it might hurt their feelings (tbh, which it shouldn't because I feel like I'm a very forgiving guy and would do anything to help that person out) but since many (sadly) gets offended I won't do anything about it. Just being honest. If there was anything that could make them feel less offended, that be great. I think most people would actually adjust themselves on their own if they actually had a tool to begin with, many people fix their own problem, whatever that could be, because they KNOW. For certain if I know/knew I was a screw up in anything and saw it with my own eyes from the very beginning, I would start fix myself than anything.