When I mention this, I was giving an example of how a uncommon thing in the beggining, can turn into a unavoidable rule for all. I wasn't suggesnting that parser are the cause of speedruns, jsut how a thing becomes more common.
Of course, while I agree the DPS meters can help people to improve or allows players help others improve, the majority of community usually doesn't care about this players, or simply will ignore them or will try kick them. It is very usual that people even doesn't care in say "hello" at the beggining of a dungeon. Of course, I'm talking about random parties on duty finder, which is the issue who bother me. Between friends, the parse won't do anything bad.
But, my experience says that people like you and me, how are usually friendly, are very few. Most of the community doesn't care about others and I feel some of them want a parse to start discard a soon as possible the called "bad seeds", which I think is horrible.
I am not saying there is not people wishing to help others, of course there are. But they are a very, very low number compared which those who don't care about other ordirectly will harrass players instead of trying offer help. Also I agree that a lot of people refuses help, but we cannot punish all the casual who really can't improve (cause IRl or whatever) for this ones.
I have a different vision here, I think the majority of the player correspons to the "Don't care about others" group. I consider the averga player base very rude agains most of players, or just indiferente. I found really hard find nice people on random parites (of course, like I said before, this is all about the random parties on Duty Finder or party finder with people you don't know).
I think the player base need to mature a lot,and be the proper players who tell other "Hey, stop harras that player with numbers!". I rarely see a player defending other random player. If the player base agreed wich is the limit for parsing, will be the proper player base which auto-regulate the community, by not accpeting plyers who harras with number. I think that's very hard to happed.
Better don't hear me in Team Speak :P
PD: I wish more poeple were able to argumnet like you here isntead of just trying to ridiculize others like I read sometimes aroind here. You're a excelent example of debating.