Assuming youve expereinced this OP since youve made a post about it (actually been to Tonberry-elemental and ended up coming back BECAUSE it was so polite there (no ghostly teabagging lalas named knives just makes my life boring >_>) But ya, since, im guessing, people in general dont see blm as top tier, melees feel more inclined, when in pt with one, to do the job themselves and let the blm be cannon fodder lol. Wouldnt take it personal..sometimes tanks take offensive buffs in view of continued offense over squishy dps.