The whole point should be to let people know that communication and understanding are going to be needed for this fight. The problems I see come from seeing this warning is that both sides do not communicate or if they do it's poorly. It's not S.E., it's the people that make things difficult.
It's a collaboration from both sides. As a new person you should have the skills to learn and adapt, not flawlessly but at least be able to adjust. So far with the new content such as dungeons, trials, raids people can quickly explain most of these and those who are new can adapt since a majority of the mechanics have been used before. Also except your flaws and take in criticism. Things like, you're not geared for this is just something you have to accept.
On the other side, the person that isn't new needs to understand that the new guy is going to die just like they did the first time. Except now it's not fun for them. When you're the new person and you screw up and die, it's a different feeling than being someone who knows the dance and has to watch someone else. When giving advice try not to put in things like "Seriously..why can't you do this?" now you got someone who isn't going to listen, and wait for you to mess up to point fingers.
The new people should ask questions, but they don't because they hope they perform well and someone else gets blamed for being new. Sometimes the people who have cleared are horrible at explaining. We had someone in the Final Steps say nothing more than "This is a fail" "wipe" "we're dead" "we aren't going to make it" and we didn't we did horrible because so many were new. Yet the problem with those statements are there is no solution to that problem. "This is a fail" why? "we're dead" why? A new guy got mad and told them to either help explain or quit it. So finally it was explained quickly. We were then able to keep people alive and made it up to killing he adds, just not quick enough. Then we found out we didn't have the DPS to do it quick enough..in other words we needed to go back and gear. We accepted that, and disbanded.
It may be the internet, and that's why people feel so empowered to yell or be rude..but I try to always talk to them as if they're actually within the same room as me. 90% of the people wouldn't act like that lol or if they did they would get taught to not do it again.

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