What's with the lack of players that believe in themselves?

[Kaurie]

not at all actually, is you that came in the board asking why others feel the way they feel..so yeah the issue is on you and fair enough to ask you why it bothers you the way they feel ? no?

I still want an answer though..why it does bother you how they feel about themselves ??? bothers you enough to post on the boards...you have an anwer to that ?

and if you dont have an answer then probably you shouldnt have been asking that question, because in the end is none of your business, is it ?

Not sure what you are talking about. I didn't ask why others feel the way they feel. It is fair to ask why it bothers me, but you said "what does it matter to you how they feel is beyond my understanding." That statement suggests that it shouldn't matter to anyone how someone feels, while also suggesting that it matters to you how I feel in that I am bothered. Hence the irony.

It bothers me that people will put themselves down so much before giving themselves an opportunity to be better. It's also a very negative atmosphere and a self fulfilling prophecy. If you assume you are worse at something, you'll be worse at it.