What's with the lack of players that believe in themselves?

[Kaurie]

people feel the way they feel...what does it matter to you how they feel is beyond my understanding. There is certainly nothing to come in here and ask such a silly question on how people feel about themselves + basing a judgement on words without knowing them in-depth or at least personally is well silly

The irony of your post. I feel the way I feel, which is bothered. Yet you seem to take issue with that.

Why does it bother you so much what others care about, or choose to discuss on a message forum?

Why would you even read the thread, much less post to it? Why not just skip it and move on to something that does interest you? Because you feel that everyone else needs to know how you, MeiUshu feels about their topic choices? Is it a self-importance thing?

Do you even see the irony in you posting what you did?

Probably not.

ah read this after I replied, I see you beat me to it.

[MeiUshu]

The irony of your post. I feel the way I feel, which is bothered. Yet you seem to take issue with that.



ah read this after I replied, I see you beat me to it.

not at all actually, is you that came in the board asking why others feel the way they feel..so yeah the issue is on you and fair enough to ask you why it bothers you the way they feel ? no?

I still want an answer though..why it does bother you how they feel about themselves ??? bothers you enough to post on the boards...you have an anwer to that ?

and if you dont have an answer then probably you shouldnt have been asking that question, because in the end is none of your business, is it ?

[Kaurie]

not at all actually, is you that came in the board asking why others feel the way they feel..so yeah the issue is on you and fair enough to ask you why it bothers you the way they feel ? no?

I still want an answer though..why it does bother you how they feel about themselves ??? bothers you enough to post on the boards...you have an anwer to that ?

and if you dont have an answer then probably you shouldnt have been asking that question, because in the end is none of your business, is it ?

Not sure what you are talking about. I didn't ask why others feel the way they feel. It is fair to ask why it bothers me, but you said "what does it matter to you how they feel is beyond my understanding." That statement suggests that it shouldn't matter to anyone how someone feels, while also suggesting that it matters to you how I feel in that I am bothered. Hence the irony.

It bothers me that people will put themselves down so much before giving themselves an opportunity to be better. It's also a very negative atmosphere and a self fulfilling prophecy. If you assume you are worse at something, you'll be worse at it.