is not rude, it's a fact dude... wolve's den was a joke and frontline is not better... melee run after caster that can destroy them easily... the pvp mode of FF14 was added for please yoshida and a small part of the community. but the whole game system is not made for pvp, the gcd is too long and the balance is all over the place. plus like i have said the gatherer will be hunted without be able to defend themself, stealth will not work, since some class have skill for detect stealth, worst if you know where the gathering spot are (because they are always at the same place) you can litterally camp the place.

seriously, what you want is not fiting with the game is not about being rude is about being realist.