Dungeoning is a team effort in this game and I do respect that. My main is blm and its funny when I am in a dungeon with tanks who think blm aoe flares or ST dmg is not going to pull hate. As a tank, you should be using everything in your arsenal to keep hate. I am not going to lower my dmg because your playing poorly. Not saying this is OPs case but it is problematic. If you want to keep hate over me, then use everything in your arsenal. Go all out and you will not have these issues. Too many tanks stick to just hitting one enemy and not rotating the hate combos. Then there are tanks who try to tank in dps stances. Then there are tanks who will see what kind of dps are in party and will not use the tools given to them to be successful. This game gives you power and yet people refuse to go all out in every encounter. Me...I happen to be one of those blms who do use enochain/RS/LL/shields, the whole nine in almost every encounter if possible.