Hmmm for the you pull it you tank it comment becareful with it. Worst case dps pulls keeps aggro and tank. Kind of makes you useless since the dps damage is waaaaaaay higher then ours when use correctly. So keep that in mind. Also as a tank it's our job to keep an eye on the emnity. Dps are not paying attention to the hate meter they're too focus on their rotations to worry about that. While all we as tanks should worry about emnity, cd when need, and then proper rotation for optimal damage. If dps is too high man up and tell the dps sorry you're out damaging my aggro. But even when I was low on ilvl never really had a problem keeping aggro no matter what the content was.