Following adjustments to AS6, Midas overall doesn't largely feel notably more difficult than the three Coils of Bahamut were in ARR. It's about where they wanted it—in between Second Coil and Final Coil in difficulty. All in all, that's a pretty good sweet spot.

Regarding recruitment, though, the game's still feeling the aftermath of the damage done by Gordias, and it's going to take time for each server to build up a sizable raiding community again. From what I can tell on my server, there are a ton of statics looking for BRD/MCH, and that bottleneck is probably really giving the scene here trouble. Even tanks seem to be more common than BRD/MCH these days, and I'm sure healers are more prolific than that.

I definitely think it's worth trying to form your own group if you're having trouble slipping into one, though. I know it can suck to backpedal a bit, but it might be worth it in the long term, especially if you can form a group with folks who you're already familiar with.