Stop being so hostile in the game

[Kingmanath]

Actually, there is. It's listed on the right in the party info.

Search info also works, as someone else mentioned.

No you're wrong, the languages we can see on your screen show the languages chosen by each gamer for their character (where you write sidenotes, your online statut, etc.)
It's really different from the languages chosen in DF

Edit : Thanks to have post the screen of the conversation, it clearly shows a misunderstanding of what they said, they didin't insult. They were talking about you, not really nicely nor politely, but no insults at all.