Stop being so hostile in the game

[Ashkendor]

I also want SE to recognize the problem, because I am not paying to be insulted in a game.

All you can do is report the behavior and move on. Don't let it bother you. That's what those kinds of people want. They want to upset you and get that negative attention. If it's a single instance of that player being a jerk, they'll probably not be punished. If they have a pattern of behavior, eventually they probably will be at least talked to by a GM. Either way, SE isn't allowed to tell you about actions they take on other players' accounts as this would violate their right to privacy.