What I don't undestand in any game is the necesity of being rude. What you win being rude? That won't make players better or something, but most of the rude players I knew they really think they are better and are entitled to despise others. Japanese players are more respectful cause culture, but is not a thing on western side whre every stupid thing can be use to harass others. Even on forums I read people menosreciating and even asking devs for restrictive features.

I will agree that FFXIV community is better than other MMO, but still is far a away from being nice.