My first PT wipe :'(

[Fernosaur]

Oh my god you are the most adorable human being on Earth. Let me hug you and make you pancakes forever q-q

Tbh I used to feel the same way when I started tanking and I'd lose hate on IL-capped BLMs on my low level PLD, and then they'd get eaten. Thankfully, in my experience most people in low-level dungeons are very patient because people are still learning as they get new skills with new levels, and once you hit lvl 60 you'll start seeing it the same way: people make mistakes all the time, so there's no point in holding it against them.

I recently accidentally murdered the whole raid in a DF run of Alexander by accidentally cleaving the whole party with an attack that I thought was a soak, but it was a cleave-like tank buster. Thankfully everyone laughed it off. You'll learn to just chuckle at your mistakes and move on, trust me! You'll also get to feel super proud of yourself once you have mastered the mechanics of endgame 8-man raids and become able to solo heal them

[Gemina]

Oh my god you are the most adorable human being on Earth. Let me hug you and make you pancakes forever q-q

Yay! I love pancakes lol! Especially the blueberry ones with blueberry syrup

But thank you for sharing your experiences. I mean I've already laughed at myself wondering why my cures are weak only to see I forgot to get out of cleric, casting on the wrong person, or using Esuna as the effect wears off and it misses lol. But I don't think anyone ever notices these things, only me. But when an HP bar hits zero, it's like "Did our healer DC? AFK?... sup??" I definitely can't wait to have more tools at my disposal. Yup

[Enkonda]

Lol this thread can become something beautiful. Just gonna share my experiences just to show that everyone makes mistakes and there's nothing you can do. So I get in a dungeon with light party in DF. Apparently, their DPS was so slow (with mine combined) that I honestly felt the need to forget about healing all along. Well, after each encounter I started seeing that my heals weren't doing much so I'm like "oh well, something's off...oh well." Derp derp, I was healing in Cleric stance due to tunnel vision trying to DPS. Led to one of the most beautiful wipes ever as I tried to get a benediction off but tank died 0.2 seconds before it went off. They cursed at me from A-Z but I still laughed it off. You said you wanted to learn how to prevent things like that, sometimes...you can't and that's the beauty of healing in an MMO.