In a well-documented psychological phenomenon where people without direct impact latch onto a current trauma to obtain attention by proxy. They in essence attempt to steal attention off the suffering for themselves and assume the role of someone who is devastated and hurting to compete with available and willing attention, instead of divert attention to, the real victims.
As for me, I have already donated and don't care to see the histrionics of white knights seeking affirmations from armchairs.