People can't wait 10 seconds...

[Leonus]

If dps pull for me, I stand by the solution of "let them die." However, after they die I say in party chat "I'm sorry, you pulled the mobs, I thought you wanted to tank them. Next time wait for me to pull." That is how you properly teach them a lesson.

Same lesson applies to this, let the dps die and when they do say "next time give me a few seconds to get aggro before you go nuts."

I find this funny, as a DD, I've watched tanks die after they've done this to me(granted i just que as a tank now, since most tanks pull pretty slow). Me and the other dps just don't hit anything. It teaches the tank to do their job, or we won't do ours, It goes both ways man. Healers have it best, they can punish everyone much easier.