People can't wait 10 seconds...

[MagiusNecros]

Everyone should be trying to adapt to each other. Team Effort.

Right. The tank generates and maintains aggro of all enemies, the DPS kills the enemies, and the healer keeps everyone alive. Break one component and your group becomes unhinged.

[Critical-Limit]

Right. The tank generates and maintains aggro of all enemies, the DPS kills the enemies, and the healer keeps everyone alive. Break one component and your group becomes unhinged.

right,

I'm just saying "letting them die" won't solve anything.

Talking like a reasonable human being is the best route. And if they are rude and say stuff like "git gud or you're bad" It's better to stomache such useless insults and just ask "How do we fix the problem?"

Maybe DPS can give some insight on how their "tank friends" keep hate. Or maybe once you establish hey you guys are 3 levels higher than me and better geared, maybe you should focus this one mob so hate control is something that's possible.

People seem so afraid to talk in this game, and they always respond to negative with more negative. which just feeds into this "bad community elitist feel" people get from trying new content.

People are already extremely conscious when they're new that they might mess it up for everyone.

[BloodPact]

right,

I'm just saying "letting them die" won't solve anything.

Talking like a reasonable human being is the best route. And if they are rude and say stuff like "git gud or you're bad" It's better to stomache such useless insults and just ask "How do we fix the problem?"

WHAT!? No way. If this were to happen to me and I'm feeling nice then I'd kick them out of the instance. If I'm feeling like they deserve something better then I'd slowly drag them to the last boss and kick them before the fight starts.