Self-Destructing Community?

[LionFranco]

If there is a new dungeon, my fc members tend to run it together first, but when you go into the roulette, you have to expect that not everyone knows the fights, but sometimes simple instructions are the easiest.
Last night I got Antitower with a newbie, he said he was new, asked for help, so we explained fights, and it generally went well, except that we had the laziest blm in the history of the game with us. Even with me using foes, my DPS was much higher, etc, all the while the newbie was working hard trying to keep ago and do mechanics, etc.
The Blm locked himself out of the final fight, so it was just 3 of us...but we beat it without him and the newbie did a great job.
He said he was new, asked for tips, they were given, it was the experienced player that sucked and dragged it down for everyone else.
So you can't judge a book by its cover, and the newbie can be better than the experienced player, but if you don't treat them nice, then you lose something IMO