Quote Originally Posted by Kaoru_Nagisa View Post
Or it means the healer is too focused on dpsing to worry about wiping (seen this more times than I care for). As a DPS who has to wait in queue for over 30 minutes sometimes, I care whether we wipe or not. If playing a song for what amounts to a single minute most of the time, can prevent a wipe, then I will do so and cover the hit to my damage as best I can until I can turn it off.

I know how best to play my own class, and I will worry about how best to contribute with my own class's skills, whether that be maximizing my dps or using my supportive skills that were put on my class by the developers.
The thing is, a healer also doesn't want to wipe. If they said that, they're likely OK. Most of us have played more than one class and have a good idea how it all works.

Beyond that, you mention ""healer is too focused on dpsing to worry about wiping (seen this more times than I care for)" and then mention "I know how best to play my own class". Either you should accept that people are able to properly judge other members of the party (you judging healers for focusing too much DPS) or accept that they know how to play best their class using the skills that was given them by the developers.

Playing Ballad could save a wipe, but it could also cause a wipe.