You need to be good at your job to solo-heal current stuff, like Thordan, or Savage.
Absolutely doable with two healers, but if you have to solo-heal, you have to bee good, and I believe that's pretty much a fact.
SE has no intention to tune the game around this kind of players, as we've seen, and as they've said.
NìSo now, if I'm paired with someone good enough, what should I do?
/sit till the fight is over? Because overhealing is not a nice thing, and it's a MP waste.
Phisicks+Adlo+Indomitability+Succor+Lustrate, that's all the healing Skills/Spells a SCH has (+ Embrace).
You can't count Eos, because you don't always have her out, but even with her you just gain another heal.
Its main AoE heals are a 30s cooldowns.
Fairy with Embrace, Eos with Rouse+WD and Fey Illumination.
What you described is a SCH, as other have said.