Why are low standards for dps acceptable?

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While he could have addressed it better, I don\\'t have any more reason to believe that the BLM in the screenshot would have responded any different regardless of how it was worded.

You don't have super powers so I know you can't read minds of someone from the past. You also apparently disregard the evidence the healer of the group posted shortly after OP that tells you the BLM started using the tool after he was kicked. This tells me she took the advice but wasn't fond of his approach. You are someone who clumps all the bad players into one arch type, just because they responded negatively to not so nice criticism.

I critique people all the time, these negative push back responses are generally caused by negative accusations. Obviously some exceptions.

Also I've met someone who didn't think blood for blood was worth getting. After explaining I convinced them.