Why are low standards for dps acceptable?

[mattlock]

just got into a roulette with a blackmage that didnt use enochian, after noticing when the first boss took longer than expected, I called him out on it and got this wonderful tidbit of dialog


Why is this allowed? Why are people allowed to play DPS like its some sort of joke class
that doesn't matter? Why did everyone turn against me when I was in the right?

Is it because I didn't coddle the DPS when I asked him why he didn't use enochian? Do I have to talk to people like they are children that wlll cry if I don't ask them something in the nicest and most passive way imagineable?

It hurts my soul to see someone not even use a core mechanic of their kit. Especially since I have blackmage leveled to 60 and have done savage and thordan with it.

I wouldn't have cared as much if they had just used enochian, even if they let it fall off due to poor planning or a simple mistake, but to not use enochian at all is unacceptable in my eyes.