Trouble setting a default graphics card to run FFXIV

[Niam]

See, that's the problem, When I change anything in the Nvidia control panel nothing sticks. I just did it right now, went to nvidia control panel, manage 3d settings, and under the global tab, changed preferred graphics processor to high performance nvidia, and hit apply.. Load up ff14 and its still using onboard graphics. I also reopened the nvidia control panel and my selection is set back to "auto select". I'ts nuts.

Edit: wait i just updated my driver and then this worked. seems that was the problem the whole time.