This ego issue you are experiencing is due to your inability to correctly play your job. You're not being removed because people have a huge ego, or believe they are 'above' you. You're being removed because you're simple not producing desirable or sufficient results, at which point you become detrimental to the teams goals. If you was playing it how it was designed than you more than likely wouldn't be having this issue. It has already been pointed out that the job/game is very on the rails, especially at lower levels. Flexibility in how your play your job is not something XIV provides.

Perhaps you'd enjoy playing GW2 more, or a game with specs/customization options?