Quote Originally Posted by Blood-Aki View Post
Gilgamesh is a very elitist raiding server, meaning you need to be caught up with the current populace on content or you're left behind, since tonberry is half jp and half english server people are actually more considerate and still do learning parties. and accept players who are new to content. without treating them like they have the plaque.

So what she said is somewhat true. Get a better server.
Can confirm. Just moved from there to Behemoth. Learning parties are rare and few between, and farm and clear parties fill several times faster than learning ones.