I can't believe I'm actually doing Feast. When this was first advertised and hyped up, I totally ignored everything about it, because it sounded like the last thing I would ever want to do with my time in Eorzea. But now I've been cornered into it, and — I'm actually having a lot of fun.
I feel so bad for everyone who gets matched with me, though. I can tell they're not thrilled about it either (I'm sorry!! I'm trying!). I let everyone know I'm new and will listen to instructions, but I think that just makes it worse (based on the silence / frown emotes).
It's definitely an ego refresh. After working hard and practicing for months to feel like a fairly confident PvE Tank, PvP has reduced me to feeling like my first day in Sastasha all over again.
I personally don't care about losses (I'm honestly just having fun doing this at all), but I can see that everyone else really wants a Win every match, so I'm struggling to catch up and do better.
I switched to PLD because playing WAR was giving me a really rough time (I think I'm too new). There's a few big issues I'm struggling with though, that I feel are really hurting my ability to contribute to matches.
Targeting
Is there a better way to target enemy players? Clicking on nameplates is as awkward and unreliable as it is in PvE, and while Target Forward / Target Back work really well for me in PvE, they seem to go schizoid in PvP.
Like I'm standing next to my healer in 8v8. There's a NIN, a WAR, and an insane SMN with auto-attack active all surrounding him. I press Tab (Target Forward) and... I target a BLM that's 25y away on the other side of the arena. I press Ctrl+Tab (Target Back) and... I target a DRG that's in the middle of nowhere.
What I should be doing with myself
I think my Damage total is way too low at the end of matches, I don't expect to be DPS/WAR but it's way too low (I am in Sword Oath). I think the problem is I feel torn in 4 different directions as PLD, and I'm not sure what to do at any given moment (especially when my team is silent / not marking).
One, my PvE Tank instincts are to protect everyone. So when I see my Heals or RDPS getting harassed or piled on, I disengage to the backline and try to CC / Purify / peel angry enemy WAR/DPS off of them.
Two, as PLD I have support tools (like Stoneskin) that I'm used to using all the time in PvE, so I also frequently disengage to Stoneskin/etc the Healers / RDPS / any MDPS being focused hard.
Three, I've been told I'm supposed to harass Healers and Casters, so when the backline/fragile targets seem safe for the moment, I circle around to the enemy backline and pick a BLM, SMN, SCH, AST, or WHM to whack, Stun, Silence, KB and generally irritate.
Four, I've got Full Swing (traited to 20%) and FOF, and I've been told burst is very important, so I'm not sure if I'm supposed to disengage from the enemy backline and go HAM on the current burn target when my team focuses someone, or just keep annoying the enemy casters.
Is there any kind of general safe fallback choice I can make for when my team is silent / not marking / not calling / constantly emoting :c and :/ faces in chat?
I think part of my issue right now is I can't decide between the above 4 choices, so I spend too much time ping-ponging all over the arena and probably losing way too much target uptime.
During one 8v8 (this team actually talked a few times!) I was told to 'assist WAR', but our WAR seemed to just go all over the enemy backline whacking random victims, changing target constantly, and it was hard to keep up with.
Tools
Should I be saving Glory Slash for trying to purge something like Equanimity, or just using it for the KB?
Is there any good rule for when to Testudo / Tank LB? I feel like I either hold them way too long (and they go to waste) or I use them when it's not really needed (and they go to waste). Cover I feel okay about, I throw that on a BLM/Healer getting mangled hard by a WAR or other melee that looks like they have all their CDs active.
Should I use Shield Bash to just Stun everyone in sight all the time, or is that a bad use of Stun DR? I'm not sure if Feast favors strategic stunning or just locking down anyone who can be, as often as possible.
Thanks everyone, I know you're all busy and need time to play yourself, etc so there's no rush on replying to me (or at all). But all the advice so far has really helped (and I don't think anyone really has time to guide me during matches, even if they wanted to).