Another newbie here, was just running Qarn as a dps for the story quest. I remember a guildie telling me it was usually best to use the Limit Break as melee dps, so I did. At the second boss I used it on the Soul Heart thing of the golem, and two people responding with "-.-' " smiley and a comment "why lb OO". I just said it was just my second time there, but right after the fight I got kicked from the group.
I did hope a game with subscriptions would have less of those people... But this kinda hurt. Especially after getting into Ultima's Bane with a really nice group, even though we failed.

I kinda understand the cutscene problem. Guildies warned me about getting behind if I didn't skip them, so I decided to watch everything back at the inn. I've played other MMOs enough to know that running the same dungeons over and over is really tiring. Though it is a shame I couldn't have the full experience. It just feels more like a game flaw rather than the people.